So mamma was called into school again to meet up with the special educator. Mamma traipsed into school much like the goat being led to the slaughter house. The brat, as most of you who have been reading the blog on a regular basis would know, has always had issues. He had delayed milestones, suspected mild autism, cognitive issues, speech delays, motor control issues. The works. Thankfully mild. So we worked through it. Three years of speech, occupational and physio therapy later, he had an assessment with the pediatric neurologist who deemed him a little behind, but okay. No autism. I did my little hallelujah dance. And life went on.
The brat continued getting special educator assistance at school as well as concessions.He did decently enough in all the assessments, with help. His grades, while not outstanding, hovered between B and C. And occasionally A. He was coping I thought. He was doing okay. He had his tuitions. I worked with him when I could. School was working with him.
But no. He's not grade level. He is showing signs of Learning Disabilities his special educator says. He needs a thorough evaluation. And probably would need Occupational Therapy. He has serious issues with math. Mamma needs to get her act together and spend more time with him and get him to do more stuff to improve his abilities.
So it is back to gird my loins, metaphorically speaking and get cracking about working with the brat like the slave driver I used to be. An evaluation to be done, and steps to be taken to get the tyke to 'Grade Level'.
Okay. Someone send across the fevikwik for my breaking heart quick. I dont feel I have the mental strength to do this all over again.
36 opinions:
Long time lurker, first time commenter - All strength to you as you go through this phase. You have pulled through every challenge so far, and I am sure this will be similar. My prayers are with you,
Deepa
Dont worry too much Kiran..I am sure things will be fine..though its very easy for me to say this..R is yet to even start school full time!
I am sure you will over come this obstacle with as much determination as you did earlier...All the best to you and Krish
Don't worry at all. Brat is a smart boy. Just hang in there!
big tigh hugs k
Hugs. Hugs. Hugs. It's my biggest nightmare too. Mine has settled down and faring very well...but to even imagine a repeat assessment gives me palpitations.
Good luck. All will be well...just that sometimes there are unforeseen bends in the road, but ultimately the road leads to the destination. It's hard to look around and see others walking a smooth straight path. But the journey is also important, no? :)
you can do it Kiran! and more importantly the Brat can do it!
Definitely definitely, he will make you proud.
ohhhh......
But with a brave, dedicated and loving mother, I am sure the brat will soon get past this issue too. All the best to both of you.
this must be so hard on you and your hubby...
from your posts, brat seems like a helluva kid who will shine no matter what life throws at him. and more importantly he is blessed with parents like you.
hang in there, friend. the silver lining is not far away.
Oh Kiran.
Ok it seems daunting but its a step forward that you know what are the issues that need to be dealt with. It has helped him before so you know how effective it is. And look at it this way, he is still so young. Has his whole life and plethora of opportunities ahead of him, inshallah. He will get the help he needs now and it will stand him in good stead rather than being told about this a few years down the line.
He has you. And more than anything else,that will help him succeed. As for you, I know you will get through this. You have a beautiful and a smart child regardless of what any educator thinks. So chin, up and hold your head up high. Big hugs.
Nitya
Oh Kiran.
Ok it seems daunting but its a step forward that you know what are the issues that need to be dealt with. It has helped him before so you know how effective it is. And look at it this way, he is still so young. Has his whole life and plethora of opportunities ahead of him, inshallah. He will get the help he needs now and it will stand him in good stead rather than being told about this a few years down the line.
He has you. And more than anything else,that will help him succeed. As for you, I know you will get through this. You have a beautiful and a smart child regardless of what any educator thinks. So chin, up and hold your head up high. Big hugs.
Nitya
Dear Kiran,
Dont you worry... everything will be fine...
I have been following your blog from the time you started and I know the efforts you have put in for brat...
I will pray for you and dear brat.
Sujatha
Hug being sent along with Fevikwik. Bet he’ll be fine at the end of it all K.
Kiran,
Hugs. I know you have all the strength and will power to help improve Krish learning skills. please believe in yourself like you always do and also in him. They are gifted with special skills and it is upto to us to unearth their talents.
Just by reading your blog I know you are a strong woman . And a kind hearted one too. I am going thru the phase you went thru three years ago. We can't afford to give up right?. Because we are mothers and we were taught not to give up on people we love and cherish.
And I know and feel you can do it. I treat this time/challenge in my life as a bonding experience rather than an duty or a chore. I know I was given this task because I can do it. And I strongly believe you can do it too.
I don't comment on any blogs any more except for one or two due to lack of time. I decided to comment as soon as I read your post to know that there are many good souls around this world praying and cheering for krish silently. And I am one of them.
With Prayful wishes
CS
Sorry to hear this Kiran. Hang in there. You're both going to pull through this too.
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Kiran,
You will sail through this ... you have been really strong and supporting the brat in every step providing him all the support. Kudos to you ...
PLease remain strong.
:( Somehow I can't think evaluation and Krish in the same breath. Not the Krish I've seen and know. All the best Kiran.... you guys have weathered this before and will sail through it again. And he is fine. I just know it.
I hope more practice and repetition is what it takes for the Brat. I have a preview into my future...
All the best Kiran!
Dear Kiran - I saw this photo last night and was thinking how much the Brat has grown...I have known him since his baby days from this blog. He looks like a little boy not that baby face any more. And I still remember your Ganpati post...I have faith that with the strength you have in you, with the faith you have in Ganpati and with all his hard work he will surely get there. And when teachers in India say he is not grade level I always find it hard to believe because if you bring him here, he will surely be at grade level in Math because they always are one grade up in Math there in India..
I wish you lots and lots of strength. I feel really bad when I think of how you must have felt when they told you to come for the meeting. But he is doing so well over all and has so many friends...he will surely do great with all the effort you put in.
This is a dificult task - all the best to you. Hope you get some help from your family in working with Krish.
Kiran,
I know it is not easy but you and Krish can do it. Krish is such a normal kiddo that I wonder what this "Grade level" struggle is all worth about.
Nissi
sending you lots of good vibes. stay strong. hugs.
Ah, hugs all you wonderful people, with cheerleaders like you, I feel stronger already.
long time lurker...occasional commenter here Kiran. I am sure you will sail through this one too. You are a strong woman. Hugs to you and krish.
Best of luck Kiran.. it's a tough road to travel but you'll do it. Many hugs.
Hang in there Kiran. This too shall pass. I know it is easier said than done but I know you can do it and bring brat right along. Hugs!!
Its a tough time for you guys.. n I know you will overcome all the obstacles. Stay positive n Lots of hugs from me n Lil P.
All the very best Kiran. I hope both you and Krish get through this phase soon.
hi! u seem to be a very brave mother, it takes lots of courage to face this, ur brfat is lucky to hav u. don't worry, the little that i know u from ur blogs i think u can do it & do it very well
Thanks everyone for those warm words *group hug* I feel better, stronger already.
Big hug K.
don't worry kiran... Krish is going to do just fine.. is it possible the school is being a bit over cautious in his case, just so he doesn't slip in his grades?
dipti
Best of luck Kiran and brat.
Hugs and prayers.
oh! :-( Do you need to get a second opinion? Krish comes across a such a bright, delightful kid in your writings. Can't believe he can have learning disabilities! Anyway, sending up prayers for you and Krish and K too. God bless!
i refuse to believe them! he is such a rock star! and the school math curriculum just sucks, anyway. hang in there dear.
Long time reader but never commented before. My thougths and prayers are with you as you get through this trying period. I am sure that all will be well with God's blessings.
Smitha.
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